Most of America has snow on the ground. People are inside, trying to stay warm. Recently, I looked out my window at home to see a dozen tulips poking through a snow drift. I marveled at the strength and power that made those plants grow in such harsh and demanding conditions. I didn’t want to go outside because of the freezing cold, but the tulips pushed through the layers of dirt, soil, leaves, and now several inches of snow.
We forget it, but people are like those snow covered tulips. Folks can push through tremendous difficulty and hardship. We often grow during the most difficult times in life when there is an inner strength guiding us forward.
Scripture provides a picture of this in 2 Corinthians chapter 4. Paul writes to the church and says, “do not lose heart.” There is an inner strength in you that the world will not understand. While it may be confused with personal strength, it is a “treasure in jars of clay.” This extraordinary power belongs to God and does not come from us. It gives the ability to endure, maintain, and move forward even when life gives us the worst conditions possible.
Paul also shares how resilient believers can be because of God strengthening us in times of sorrow. In verse 8 he shares that God provides so well that “we are afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not driven to despair; persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed . . . .” The Lord who helped Israel endure the desert sands will also strengthen you during the challenges of today.
God provides a covering that shelters us during the storms of life. He also allows His Holy Spirit to guide us and strengthen us when we only see darkness. The inner strength protects us and allows us to move upward, beyond the dirt and soil of difficulty.
Don’t lose heart. Remember what God can do with snow covered tulips. He renews their inner strength day by day, allowing momentary afflictions to prepare them for a greater reward and a new season of life.










Do You Have a Five Star Marriage
January 27, 2015 by John Potter
Do you have a five star marriage?
People want to stay at the best hotels and resorts when they travel. These hotels earn a five star rating because they consistently deliver excellent service, provide great amenities, and offer that special touch of class like little chocolates on your pillow. They go the extra mile. People instead settle for a two or three star establishment because of proximity, cost, and time. We often settle for less instead of striving for the very best.
This is also true in marriage. We can have a great relationship with quality time together, kind words toward each other, and sacrificial acts of service. But too often we settle for a mediocre marriage with little strength, support, or commitment.
How can we flip the switch?
Couples need to honestly evaluate the relationship with their spouse. Are your expectations being met? When expectations are not met, we are disappointed. Disappointment often carries with it frustration, anger, and isolation. If our reality is less than what we expected, then the reality equals a disappointed spouse. Share expectations with each other so that you are both on the same page and can work toward mutual goals.
Couples need to focus on each other. I can tell when my wife is upset, stressed out, or angry. Most of us know that look or phrase from a spouse. There is a cue that reveals his or her inner thoughts. That is a signal to ask questions, share an encouraging word, help around the house, fix a problem, take the kids for a walk, or just listen. Don’t ignore the cues and signals that your spouse sends you. Take notice. Respond and act to support each other.
Couples need time together. Husbands and wives are great at making time to discuss problems, schedule school events, and play taxi service for the kids. While this is important, couples also need to spend quality time together. They need to get away, go on a date, and make time for their one true love. Don’t lose the fire and energy that brought you to the altar in the first place.
February 7-14 is National Marriage Week. Use that time to evaluate your marriage and strengthen your relationship. Check out their resource page at http://www.nationalmarriageweekusa.org and discover how a few simple steps can improve any marriage.
No matter where your marriage is today, you can build a stronger relationship that will last for the rest of your life. Make a five star marriage part of your life today.
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